Why do you think it is unwise to expect perfection in members of our wards and branches?
“We would wish the Saints to understand that, when they come here, they must not expect perfection, or that all will be harmony, peace, and love; if they indulge these ideas, they will undoubtedly be deceived, for here there are persons, not only from different states, but from different nations, who, although they feel a great attachment to the cause of truth, have their prejudices of education, and, consequently, it requires some time before these things can be overcome."
~Joseph Smith, Jr.
We should be patient and love with each other. I for one am FAR from perfection. I am a sinner! I screw up! I make mistakes all the time. I try not to. I try to be a good person. But I do have my issues I try to work through. I am sorry for hurting others. Please forgive me. Help me feel loved and I will do the same for you. I love people. "We need to live together in love..."